Meet Your Love Strategist

Hi! I'm Gabriela Holt, your certified life coach and personal hype squad rolled into one. ✨

Real talk? I believe everyone deserves to be loved exactly as they are—and I didn't settle when it came to proving that to myself. At 38, after years of focusing on everyone else, I finally did the self-love work. Six months later, I met Seth. Turns out, the right relationship was waiting for me to love myself first.

For years, I thought I was failing because I couldn't do it all. Turns out, I was drowning because I was doing EVERYTHING.

My Empathy made me everyone's therapist. My Relator made me loyal to people who weren't loyal back. My Positivity convinced me things would get better if I just tried harder. My Arranger made me the fixer. My WOO made me perform "totally fine" while drowning inside.

Sound familiar?

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You've mastered your career, built your life, achieved your goals. So why does your inner voice still whisper "you're not enough"? And why does love feel like the one area where your success formula doesn't work?

You're not broken. You just need the right tools.

You're Successful Everywhere... Except Where It Matters Most

Here's What I Learned...

I wasn't failing. I was carrying everything alone and wondering why I was exhausted.

So I chose ME. Left the job that drained me. Stopped dating people who didn't match my effort. And I worked on my self-love—date after mediocre or horrible date. Yeah, it sucked. There were lonely nights crying myself to sleep. But I kept at it. I even dated myself. I decided I would rather be single than settle for mediocre love.

Persistence paid off at 38 when I met my person—the love that led me to Washington State and proved what nearly 20 years in this work has shown me:

Loving bravely is hard work. Even scary at times. But nothing worth having comes easy, and it all starts with YOU.

That's why I created the LOVE™ Framework: Let Others Value Everything about you.

The people who "have it all together" aren't stronger than you. They just stopped carrying everyone else's shit.

You're not too much. You're not failing. You're just exhausted from being everyone's solution.

Let's change that. I'm always rooting for you. 💛

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THE MENTOR

You need someone who understands high-achievement AND high-quality relationships

I used to think something was wrong with me—until I realized I was just doing everyone's emotional labor, mental load, and heavy lifting while calling it "being strong."

Cancer survivor. Toxic workplace escapee. Years of relationships where I was the only one trying. And every single time, my strengths betrayed me.

After years of studying the psychology of high-achievers in relationships, plus my own journey from workaholic to happily partnered, I've cracked the code on how ambitious people can have both empire AND intimacy.

Now I work with single parents drowning in solo mode, partnered people who feel like single parents anyway, and high-achievers who are one meltdown away from losing it—teaching them how to use their strengths FOR themselves, set boundaries that stick, and build lives where THEY matter too.

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